Who is The Seduxe?
Hello Love,
My name is Amber De Vos, and I have made it my mission to help Singles go from clueless to coupled, Couples go from “meh” to “mhmmm” and I help heal the broken hearted.
How do I do this? By giving them effective strategies, in real life and via self-produced training videos, to improve their overall dating and communication skills. Not to mention, the abundance of empowering advice I offer on how to break through the mental blocks that seem to hold them back from finding lasting love.
I use my background as a top New York City celebrity photographer of 12 years, my BA degree in Anthropology, and an 11+ year-long passion for personal development to create a unique style of coaching that helps my clients grow and discover the best version of themselves on their dating journey. I am also certified.
As a successfully single woman who lived in New York City for over 15 years, I’ve had every dating experience possible. From A-list celebrities to regular guys and everything in between, I have a unique perspective to know what does and doesn’t work when it comes to courtship, and I love this opportunity to help men understand what women really want.
I am inquisitive, passionate and an empathic listener by nature. I truly love being able to help others navigate the sometimes frustrating and confusing world of dating. I always aim to build a foundation of trust, intention, and most importantly, fun with my clients.
I do believe in the power of love and I know that someone’s entire life can change with just one great date.
Dating can be hard work, but my mission is to set my clients up for success and for them to become the kind of dater they’ve always aspired to be. I am committed to transforming the entire process into a meaningful and rewarding experience for everyone.
In short, I’d love to help you on your own personal journey. Who wouldn’t? I look forward to hearing back from you about next steps.
Lots of Love,
- Amber De Vos, The Seduxe
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What People Are Saying
Amber “The Seduxe” is amazing. After a difficult break up she gave me great advice on how to move on and start dating again. It wasn’t always what I wanted to hear and she didn’t sugar coat it which is what I like. Unlike receiving advice from a friend Amber has actually studied relationship psychology and knows how to maneuver many of the games that are played. If you need advice, a strategy, or a totally new approach I highly recommend her. ”
— Carl, Santa Cruz
I came to Amber with an “inventory problem”. I’d been doing most of my dating outreach online. And it didn’t seem like women were that into me, even though I have a lot of great qualities. Amber suggested it might help to upgrade to my profile pictures and wardrobe. So I did, and reposted my profiles in same places. Now, they’re generating so much more response…and from a much larger area than I intended!
My work with Amber is also paying off in how I feel about dating, and how I can interact more comfortably and confidently with women who in the past might have seemed out of my reach. Over the last few weeks I’ve hardly had any time to reach out to women on my own because so many more are coming at me now and they’re asking ME for dates!
So now I have to figure out…how do I handle all this interest? It’s a much better problem to have! ~ Peter K. Los Angeles
“Amber has the unique ability to see through the clutter of my challenges and shine a spotlight on the things that matter most.
She also has a wealth of helpful resources that can help you break old patterns that aren’t serving you and create new, authentic ones.”
~ Jim D., San Francisco
"Amber's coaching and feedback sessions are thought provoking, action oriented, fun, and -most importantly-helpful. She is a great accountability partner that has kept me focused on identifying the things / want in a partner and how to deal with challenges in dating and in relationships. Sometimes it's just her little suggestions on how to approach a problem or how to articulate my thoughts that make all the difference. In short, she's the best relationship coach EVER!"
- Brian, Huntington Beach
